Goodbye Hodjee Podge
Hodjee passed away in my arms today, Monday, December 22, 2008. She had been ill for a few weeks, but really went downhill fast. Here is a little about her life.

Hodjee was adopted in May of 1997 from the ASPCA in NYC. Her birthday was estimated, but I guess she lived to be 13-years-old. The day I adopted Hodjee, she was the most unfriendly, shy and not-pretty cat in the place. Of course we thought she was beautiful, but no one else gave her a second look. That’s why we wanted her. She seemed quiet and well-behaved and we thought she would be a good companion to Meelee.
Little did we know, Hodjee had just had spay surgery, and was not quiet or well-behaved, just drugged. Once she was home and recovered from surgery, she started to show her true character.

Hodjee did not really keep Meelee company as much as use her as a chew toy. Hodjee was probably feral before we adopted her, and she was a true wild child.

She usually had this crazed look in her eyes, and had a habit of getting into mischief.

Here, in 1999 in NYC, she is stealing a cracker right out of my mouth.

Here Hodjee shows off her “sharp side up” in a photo from 1999 in NYC. Hodjee would go sharp side up whenever she felt threatened. Her favorite place to go sharp side up was at the Vet’s office. Once in NYC, I warned a veterinarian that he might want to put on long sleeves before dealing with Hodjee. He said something like “I’ve been doing this long enough to be careful.” Hodjee tore into him like a tazmanian devil, and he soon had claw marks up and down both forearms. To top it off, Hodjee lunged in mid-air right at his face.
SCORE: Hodjee 1, Veterinarians 0

Here’s a photo of Hodjee’s handiwork on my sister’s hand, when I was out of town on a business trip. I warned her not to pet her too long. Hee hee.

A year after we got Hodjee, we threw cuddly Simon into the mix to see if a new “chew toy” would calm her down and give Meelee a break. Here they are all together in 2000 in our apartment in San Francisco. (This was the only way I could get them to pose together).

On any given day, you could count on Hodjee getting herself into something she shouldn’t get into, and doing something she shouldn’t do. Here she is on the shelf in the bathroom, knocking stuff off onto the floor.

But you could also count on her snuggling at least once a day. Here she is snuggling with my nephew Ethan in 2006.

Steal the dog toy?

Snuggle.

Eat your homework?

Snuggle.

The tip of her tail always looked like she stole it from another cat. And knowing Hodjee, I wouldn’t put it past her. She was a real New Yorker, with a big heart and an attitude to match.

Hodjee was a wonderful, smart, sneaky, wild, crazy, vindictive fighter and biter. And we loved every last bit of her mischief. (Sometimes we even encouraged it).

Tonight we wrote her a letter to say goodbye.

And wrapped her up tight in her sherpa donut with her favorite pillow case, her favorite mouse toy and some of the “good stuff” (cat nip). She will be cremated.
To wrap up this memorial to Hodjee Podge, here is a video of her doing one of her favorite things: Watching birds. The video is from our years in San Francisco.
Hodjee, you were with me from New York to San Francisco and up to Seattle. In good times and bad. In snuggles and mischief, for over 11-years. I couldn’t have asked for a better companion (even if you did use me as a chew toy now and then.) You were the best.
Goodbye you crazy kid. I’m really going to miss you.
Love XOXOX
Mom


43 Comments
Looks like she couldn’t have had a better life or better home.
What a beautiful tribute for Hodjee. I’m so sad and crying my heart out for both of you. I can’t write, I will be back later…
So sad. I’m sorry……
Wow. After reading that, I’d have to say that Hodjee could have been a wolverine if not the Wolverine. She certainly is a scrappy li’l cat, and I’m positive that for all the times that she was written off and passed over, your bottomless heart gave her everything she could have asked for including that rare solace that only comes with unconditional love.
Elaine is right. Hodjee couldn’t have asked for a better life. She may not have known it, but Hodjee was looking for you her whole life up until that wonderful day in 1997.
Hodjee- you whent out in a blaze of glory. You will be missed. You could not have picked better humans to shack up with.
Where have I seen those wild eyes before? In all my feral cats. Hodjee was such a character and your memorial to her is perfect. She must have been a tough little girl to survive kittenhood and live long enough on the streets of New York to make to the ASPCA. Thanks for choosing the most beautiful cat at the shelter. Beautiful to you.
Tears are rolling down on my face while I am pretending to work at the office….what a beautiful memorial. She learned to put down her defenses to love and trust you because you let her be. Wayne is right — she is a Wolverine. Thanks for loving this tough-on-the-outside but vulnerable and senstive soul who desperately cried out for you.
Hodjee was a very lucky cat to have found such a loving home. Her spiritual twin, Honey, allows us to live at her house. She goes pointy side up a hundred times a day; but, when the lights are out, she makes sure all her people are well fed: she brings them her fur mice. Torties have a reputation for being…personality laden…they are a challenge and a joy. I am glad you were able to cherish both aspects. It has been a tough year for you and your flock of feathers and fur. I hope for peace, peas, catnip and good health in the new year.
Are you sure she wasn’t part red panda? That tail looks like it could have come from a red panda, and I hear that they can go sharp-side-up as well, for all their cuddly good looks.
In all seriousness, I am so very sorry. You gave a second chance to an unwanted cat, and let her blossom into her crazy, hot-tempered, but ultimately lovable self. We’ll be thinking about you this Christmas.
Give Simon and Meelee extra hugs for me.
I know she will be missed. Hugs for you and her animal family too. This week was a rough one.
What a moving Memorial… rest safely Hodjee. Take care of the feathered cats as well as the furry ducks in Heaven now.
And many, many hugs of comfort to Tiffany for this holiday season.
Thank you so much for sharing this lovely memorial for Hodjee. All of the animals you live with are so lucky to have you, and I am so grateful to be able to watch you celebrate their lives at all of their various stages. You are an inspiration, Tiffany! I wish you all the best and send you much love.
That was beautiful, Tiff. She clearly found the right home and enjoyed it to the fullest… and what a sweet memorial.
You did so much for her and she showed you (albeit sometimes painfully) what a good companion is: always there and willing to tell it to you straight.
She had a fun, crazy life, and I’m sure she was glad she got to share it with you.
Tiffany, thank you for sharing this wonderful memorial to Hodjee. Our hearts go out to you – Allyson and Stella cat
Tiffany, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad she passed away peacefuly and had a second chance in a wonderful home with such a devoted mom.
I am so sorry for your loss – my heart, as well as my cat’s hearts, go out to you and all your furry family.
I’m sorry for your loss Tiff – but happy for all the time you had with Hodjee and the love you had for and from her. This was a wonderful story of her life and what made her special. RIP.
Hodjee would approve of this wonderful memorial. Very fitting and filled with love. Real love, not the passive love that is easy to obtain but real love, that grew from respect and an understanding. Real love.
*peace Hodjee* Give my Nermal, Chloe, Chibi and Ernie a rub and headbonk.
PS. Any of the above cats are good to snuggle with. Ernie is a duck, so he might be busy with Georgie and Kosmo so you’ll know right away who he is.
*hugs*
Kim and Mary Mac
Painful! I can feel the sadness you must feeling now! My thoughts are witj you!
xxx
My deepest condolences.
Hogjee will live forever in our hearts (and on the bodies of all who met the sharp side.) She taught us that every creature is worthy of love, and she was very loved, the imperfections and all. She had a great life, thanks to big hearted Mom, and gave back huge amounts of joy. As a special treat, Hodjee has earned her (angel) wings. The doves better watch out.
Tiffany,
My sympathy to you and yours. I hope that 2009 is filled with lots and lots of good things for you and your animal friends. You deserve it!
Erin and family
You have had such a trying year. I cried when I read about wrapping your beloved Hodjee up with her donut and favorite toys. When I lost my cockatiel of 13 years s few years back, I wrapped her with her favorite toys for cremation. I hadn’t thought about that for along time now, and it brought back to me how much I loved her.
I believe in our next life we will be reunited with all our animal children that have gone before us. And none of them will ever be sick again. We all will laugh and play and be together for eternity.
This is a wonderful tribute!!
I can’t say anything else…….
I just stumbled on this stie and wanted to say that I’m so sorry for your loss.
Your gave Hodjee had a sweet and love-filled life – she was a lucky kitty.
Stay strong.
Beautiful tribute to her life…
My last kitty I buried her with all her favorite things & a CD of photos of her.
My kitty now looks like Hodjee and she is a monkey!
May you find peace after all the painful things you have been through…
This makes me cry….oh she was so beautiful and oh so loved.
I hate death.
I wish I could do something to help you, Tiff….but I just don’t know what to do.
You are an amazing woman.
R.I.P. Hodjee
That was a lovely tribute-you have my sympathies
great tribute
Condolences on your loss .
I loved how you said that Hodgee was good at messing up shelves, causing things to fall off. My torti Spunkie was the same way. She was not too graceful. I’m glad that you were able to have Hodgee at home and that you didnt’ have to take her to the vet to have her put down. What a way for her to go – for her and you – to be with her in her final moments.
Your written memorial with the photos was great. Not many cats/pets can say they have been to NY, SF, and then to Seattle in a lifetime.
OOOOhhhhhh –your tribute is so beautiful –I have soaked my keyboard.
I should have said in the previous message that reading/seeing your tribute to Hodjee has helped me accept my Sherlock passing last month. He was 17 yrs and my baby.
I am so sorry for your loss. My Bella passed away 2 years ago, and I still miss her so much. She was a rescue too, from the LA SPCA. There was this grey kitty in the cage below her who was rubbing up against the bars and being friendly, while Bella had a big tag on her door that said, “I bite!”. But I could tell that she was just scared, so I opened her door and put my hand in to pet her, and she immediately began to purr. (She did bite me a little, but not hard.) Anybody would have adopted the grey kitty, but “Miss Bites Alot” would have a harder time, so my mind was set and Bella came home with me. Within hours, she gave me her belly and had thoroughly claimed my space. We have 3 other cats – all feral siblings that were “given” to me by a feral mother I would feed – but I still miss my Bella.
That was really sweet. You were both lucky to have found each other.
I am so sorry about your loss. She was a beauty.
you’re a strong person to be able to put together a memorial like this. i still turn into a blubbery mess when i think of my kitty who i had to put down 4 years ago. hodgee was lucky to have you. it’s so hard to say goodbye to our little friends.
Dearest Tiff; I just got through reading all of the wonderful comments you received for your sharp side up kitty, Hodjee. The tears are still running down my face. I too have lost a dear pet that was like my own baby. It was necessary for me to put down my wonderful dog, Stubby on December 6th and I am still missing him so very much. Your loss of a treasured pet (more like a child) is something I can relate to. Every day I keep wishing to hear him and see his tail wagging when I come home. He was always happy to see me and his unconditional love is greatly missed. I could tell by the great memorial that you wrote, that you will always feel that there will never be another kitty like Hodjee. Hodjee was unique, and will always have that special place in your heart. God bless you, and your caring heart. I know our pets always return our love ten-fold.
I’m late in posting this, but just wanted to say I’m so sorry for your loss. hugs.
Pringles is sorry too : (
He hasnt been on the computer much but he is trying to catch up
Thanks to each and every one of you who posted a note. It really means a lot to know you took the time to learn a little about Hodjee and post a response. She was a good biter attack cat and I miss her a lot. I know all of you have been through the same thing with your own pets, and that’s part of what comes with having pets. Here’s hoping for a happy and healthy 2009 for us all, but especially for our pets.
Love,
Tiff
Tiffany,
Stuart nibbled and nudged me to write. He wants you to know that he misses Hodjee and is sorry for your loss. We all have learned that love never forgets.
Best wishes to you and yours for the New Year!
Stuart and the Jinglepets gang
What a lovely (and funny!) tribute…I’m sure she had a wonderful life with you.