Sunny Update
NOTE: This posting is rated PG-17 for STRONG LANGUAGE and RATIONAL THOUGHT. Stop reading now if you’re overly-sensitive or irrational.
Sunny did well at the vet’s office today. Her legs are both really bad, and most likely (given the old emails I found about her) due to a traumatic injury in February of 2006. For now, the vet wants to try and see if we can control the inflammation and pain for Sunny to improve her quality of life enough to keep her around. This means she will need to stay with me indefinitely, as she’ll need medication every day for the rest of her life. Today they did blood work and took a sample of fluid from her joints to ensure it wasn’t something other than just inflammation from her chronic, untreated injury from 2006. Sunny’s right “knee” (up under the feathers) has calcification on the tendon. That is keeping her from being able to pull that leg forward and stand on it normally. She stands on her ankle and that can’t be comfortable. Sunny’s left “ankle” (which looks like a backwards knee for those confused by duck anatomy) is very distorted from chronic arthritis, but it doesn’t seem infected. Again, we’ll know for sure when the blood work and biopsy comes back. This is my lay-person description. I am obviously not a veterinarian. For now, Sunny is doing okay and enjoying her chicken friends, Racquel L’Oreal and Olivia.
I do have to warn you now that I’m just about to go on an extended rant over the next few weeks. I’ve reached a breaking point this season. I’ve seen far too much neglect, which is always a problem. But with Sunny, I’m especially disappointed at the rescuer community, including myself.
Sunny is a duck who in February of 2006 had a traumatic injury. Her owner did not have money to support the 30+ rescued animals she had at her home at the time, and couldn’t afford to take even a single one of them to the vet. She couldn’t afford her car payment, let alone the 30+ rescued animals she illegally kept in her mobile home. Sunny went to a regular vet (apparently) who didn’t normally treat birds. That vet did not do an x-ray or blood work. No one had money to pay for it. Sunny’s owner turned to message boards to get help for her, and got such sage advice as:
“I’d think about a straight forward foot injury and inflamation. Foot and/or bone infection might be a possiblity.”
“Has she had an x-ray to rule out hardware disease??”
“Egg binding??”
“For pain and to help her until tomorrow, dissolve one 325 mg (regular adult size) ASPIRIN in a gallon of water and let her drink that as her only water source.”
Miraculously ten days later, Sunny “improved,” apparently after an avian vet gave her one injection of an anti-inflammatory. She never walked the same again. She barely walks at all, and every step is painful. She never had an x-ray or blood work, because it was too expensive.
Now for the rant:
1. If you rescue animals, and you cannot afford to take them to qualified veterinarians, you are neglecting them. Maybe you THINK you’re doing good? But you’re out of touch with reality and overestimate your own skill level. You are not a veterinarian. You are not acting rationally.
2. If you seek “veterinary” advice, or give advice, on a message board… without ever examining the animal in person and ordering diagnostics, you’re abusing animals. You are unqualified and haphazardly giving half-assed information to people whose skill level you don’t know. Be responsible. Be rational. Explain to me how you’re “saving animals” again? Think you can give helpful advice based on an uneducated person’s impression of what might be wrong with their animal? You’re part of the problem.
3. If you cannot find a qualified veterinarian in your area for the animals you have or are rescuing, do not rescue those animals. They are better off dead than in your half-assed magical do-gooder care. You are very likely woefully unqualified to treat animals, and might even have a God complex. If you didn’t go to veterinary school, stop acting like you did. If you get pets before researching whether or not a qualified veterinarian is nearby, you are an irresponsible pet owner.
4. If you’re running a “sanctuary” or a “rescue” and constantly sending out notes about how you’re about to lose your house, car, job, land, etc. then you’re a really, really shitty sanctuary, now aren’t you? If you cannot pay your mortgage, you cannot afford animals. End of story. Stop spamming the entire world with threats of dumping your animals because you can’t pay your mortgage.
5. “But if I don’t save them, who will?” Sunny suffered in pain, shaking her wings in pain and pulling her tail under her in excruciating pain for days and days while her owner, who couldn’t afford proper care, asked for help from random unqualified strangers on a message board, and got random shitty advice from all over the place. Over three and a half years later, she ended up at my house and finally got an x-ray that shows just how much pain she was in for all this time.
6. Think I’m being too harsh? I hope you, as a human, never have a crushing injury to your legs and pelvis while a friend or family member tries to tube feed you with aquarium tubing while asking unqualified @$$hats on the Internet about what dosage of antibiotics might help you, all the while not getting real medical care for you.
7. If you have a bunch of rescued animals and routinely lose them to predators, you are not sane. You’re part of the problem.
8. If you call yourself a “sanctuary” or a “rescue” and let animals breed and hatch all over the place, you are not sane. You’re a part of the problem.
9. Oh! And to those of you who think I’m spending too much money on “a duck” or “a chicken” then let me do some math for you. A $500 vet visit can correctly diagnose an animal and save them years of suffering. If you smoke a pack of cigarettes a day, you can quit and have $500 to spend on veterinary care in a little over 3 months. If you drink a latte a day you could drink water instead and have $500 saved up in 4 months. Having trouble making ends meet but you have DVDs, an iPhone, an iPod or other bullshit materialistic crap no one needs? You’re wasting money. If you drink alcohol, see movies, eat out, travel, buy clothes, etc. but don’t have money for a vet visit, give me a royal break.
And that is part one of a weeks-long rant of all the completely out of control bullshit that goes on with animal rescue, message board advice and rescuers who think they’re veterinarians. I will be over here in the corner, having alienated everyone else.
Stay tuned, or if you don’t like it, tune out.


47 Comments
Thanks for speaking these words of truth. Thank God Sunny found her way to you. I have the utmost respect for you and the work you do. Hopefully, some reading this will have a wake up call. I am praying for you dear beautiful, courageous Sunny.
You are such an inspiration to me and my partner Tiffany. We read Flapper’s blog everyday, and laugh, cry and marvel at you birds and the antics they all get up to. Thanks so much for sharing your beautiful animals with us. We look at ducks completely different now.
Thank you, Amy. I’m calling her “Sunny Bunches” these days. Did you just make a donation after reading my rant? Ha ha ha. Thank you. You’re rewarding my rant behavior you know.
*Hugs to the silly duck human from the silly rabbit human*
Its similar in rabbit rescue.. We call them hoarders. and rabbits breed like.. well, rabbits. If you rescue a rabbit, you get it fixed before you rescue another.. rabbit gender identification is sometimes done wrong even by the vets. It’s not rocket science.. shell out the $70 NOW and not $470 in five months to spay/neuter the little..
We do have a mutual support system for “Ack, vet’s not open, anyone experience this??” but it’s always a back-up to a qualified, knowledgable vet!!
I constantly get “Bunny needs home badly!” requests .. I can’t afford another rabbit but supposedly this makes me a cold hearted witch to say no??
Bfeh. Hope your duckies and chickens are dealing with this rediculous pacific-north-sweat heat better than Sage!
You GO sister! Eloquently stated! Keep up the good work. The world can never have enough animal advocates. You stand out in a crowd!
Poor Sunny! I am glad that she has you to look after her. I hope things go well for her.
It sounds like that woman who had her before has a hoarding problem. I’m am NOT saying this makes her behavior ok. I hope the other animals she has get taken away and placed with real rescues. And I hope she gets some professional help for her issues so this doesn’t happen again.
BRAVO!!!! BRAVO!!!!! (stands on desk and applauds…causing co-workers to think faith is loonier than they already did) Being a responsible pet caretaker is just as important (maybe more?) as being an animal lover. Best thoughts to you, Sunny, and the rest of the crew.
Bravo, Tiff. Very well said, although given what you’ve gone through with Sunny, I can only imagine the kind of “sailor on liberty” level of language you’d be tempted to use.
http://www.heroswaggintrain.com/poems_stories/mr_mrs_petowner.htm
Came across this Tiff and thought of you!
Amen! You’ve said it all.
They are lucky to have you. I echo the sentiments of all of the previous commenters.
Very well said! You make such a difference in the lives of the animals that you take in, and it’s too bad that there aren’t more people like yourself in the world, who act rationally and compassionately regarding the welfare of animals in need, rather than acting in a way that seems to fulfill their own personal needs vs. the needs of the animals in their care. My thoughts and well wishes are with you and Miss Sunny. Take care.
Rant on. You make very cogent points based on years of experience dealing with heartbreaking rescue cases. Bravo for having the cojones to say this.
Well said! Excellent!
Great rant, and someone has to say it. In regards to spending money on your pets, I feed my bunnies organic veggies everyday and there are some that think that’s going too far. As if the bunnersons would expect anything less.
I hope Sunny feels better soon!
I couldn’t agree more with every word you wrote. About a year ago I made a new friend and very quickly she stopped speaking to me after I told her what I thought about the fact that she allowed her sick cat to die a slow, agonizing death with zero medical care.
You rock!
Wow – excellent rant!
Hear, hear. I am glad to hear that Sunny’s suffering may be treatable and that you have sought help for her. I volunteer with a wildlife center as a transporter, and even that little bit of commitment requires money, grit, and humility. What you do amazes me, period.
The most painful thing is seeing the front-line amateur “rescuers” who discover the animals make the mistake of well-meaningly providing INCREDIBLY inappropriate care (”I gave him a dixie cup of water” is the most harmless… “I cooked some rice and gave it to the baby ground squirrel but he wouldn’t eat it” probably the most mind-boggling, next to “we put ‘medicine’ on the lawn to keep sparrows away, you don’t think that will have hurt the owlet, do you?”)
I’m standing over in that corner with you Tiffany. Kisses to Sunny – I hope she is out of pain and surrounded by frozen peas very soon!
Thank you for one of the most accurate rants on animal rescue I have read/heard in a long time. I volunteer at a parrot rescue, and have similar stories to yours. Please keep up all your amazing work with the ducks, chickens, and four-legged creatures. And hugs to all the animals, from out here in Maryland!
100% agreement with the rant. I did parrot rescue for years before becomming so cynical that I had to walk away. At the time I had over 40 birds, from finches to macaws that had been tossed away. We could have retired early on what we’ve spent on vet bills for these unwanted souls. We have cried over their losses when they couldn’t be saved, cursed the people who continue to breed them & the people who abandon them.
Finally I realized that I couldn’t save them all. But I could save some. We don’t take in birds any more, choosing to give quality life to the ones we have. When I tell someone that I can’t take the bird they no longer want I do feel bad. I offer advice on how to work with the bird, explain that there is a shortage of homes & if they can’t care for it or find a quality home for it consider euthaenasia. Generally the morons think it’s kinder to let it go. Born Free is crap. If Elsa had eaten the family that raised her, perhaps people would think that turning them loose was not such agood idea.
We have fewer birds now. Each one is a joy that helps remove the “moron” contamination from my heart. Our wonderful vet probably has a new pool on what we’ve paid him over the years. (in ground with spa) I love your site. It is wonderful knowing that there are others who are willing to spend over $500 on a duck while people around you ask “why did you take it to the vet when you can just get a new one?” You keep ranting because you are absolutely right!
and fingers are crossed for Sunny to feel better. She is a beautiful duck.
Thank you for stating what really, really needs to be said!
Peas!
I’m so glad to hear Sunny may be able to feel better. Your vet is terrific. Does Flapper flirt with her? I would think he’d be looking through the fence at her and thinking ‘hubba hubba’.
I’m so glad Sunny is being seen to. It’s so hard to see an animal not be able to function right. I hope she feels better very soon.
On the hoarder: I have one in the family (stuff, not animals, fortunately) and I know that it’s extremely difficult to treat. It’s made even more difficult by the hoarder’s complete inability to admit they have a problem. That’s when city/county/law enforcement need to get involved to be sure there isn’t collateral damage like what has happened to Sunny.
I pitched a couple of bucks in the hat for the vet bill.
Nicky
Halleluja! Thank you; I am sending this to everyone and keeping it forever. You are nothing short of awesome, Tiffany.
Pam in Central Cal
More people need to read your rant. If everyone chose to be responsible and compassionate towards their pets, there would no need for rescuers. Until then, more people should this!
Tiff, you know how I think you are a wonderful ducky mom and consider you my friend, so I hope this doesn’t come across wrong. I’m just against hypocritical, judgmental rants that are posted under the guise of being rational. That being said, and before some of you, who do not know me, judge me and assume that I am defending what happened to Sunny, you’re WRONG. No one is perfect and everyone has made mistakes in their lives. Tiff, I know you learn from your mistakes, which is one of the things I love about you. No one is born all-knowing, life is not black and white, right or wrong, and it certainly is not predictable. That is why it is upsetting to me that you would write such harsh words, as if you were better somehow and that people would respond as if they are too. Maybe you are better in this situation, but what about other situations? Wouldn’t life be easier if we were all perfect, had unlimited funds at all times, could predict the future, AND had knowledgable vets around every corner that could cure all? If you have these things, count your blessings. Oh…and could you tell me what the next lotto numbers will be please?
Many hugs to you and Sunny. I know she is in very loving and capable hands. I’ll go over to the other corner now…;o)
BRAVO!
I rescued cats in my previous life. I lived on popcorn and water for 2 months because one of my 11 cats got IBD and had an infected tooth that needed surgery. Then, when my dog got polpys, I lived on popcorn and water with no running water for another month to get that taken care of.
When I realized that I couldn’t afford to keep all of them anymore, I thinned the herd by adopting them out to people who could, suffered many long (still suffering actually) years of guilt for “letting them down” somehow by not keeping them in my loving care.
BRAVO to you Tiffany.
Rescue is NOT for sissies. Period.
I liked your rant. Have thought the same things (and others) many times myself. Having to deal with nighttime poachers and people who drop their pets off at my house because I’m in the country, I have dreamt up many things to do to people like that. Take care of yourself and the wee ones and to hell with anyone who doesn’t like it.
Tiff, i can only hope that your rant can get on some of these message boards. I can see people wanting to help animals and see how people end up hoarding animals to “help’ them but like you said if they can afford to go to a movie and do what all else for themselves, they can give that up and go with helping their pets.
i know people who never even take their multiple cats to the vet for a yearly check up; not even having shots for distemper and respiratory diseases. They say they can’t afford it. Then I say just have what you can afford.
You go Tiff. We’re behind you and I get angry too.
Tiff, i enjoyed watching Sunny in the pool. He can get around so well in the water. Boy, do we need the cool water today. It’s only 3PM and it’s 102 already. YOH!! we broken records last night with a “low of 70″ and then the high today is breaking records.
Tiff, I agree with you. It doesn’t matter how well-meaning a person is, it isn’t a rescue unless the animal being “rescued” gets access to the care it needs. I’ve seen a lot of dumpers and “rescuers” in my time as a veterinary technician and they deserve this kind of admonishment. The animal deserves better than a half-assed attempt.
Such a meanignful rant!
I wish there was more thoughtful thinking about animals. People think the’yre doing something right but don’t realize/ignore the fact that they are in over their head.
I have ducks, cats, a dog, fish, turtles… but all of them receive the best care from me and my family. Including actually taking them to the vet!
I feel so bad for handicapp animals. I have a good place for them in my heart. My Pati-Faye pekin duck was my first duck, and she is somewhat handicapped. She started getting seizures as a baby, and I did everything I could to save her (I went to like, four different vets within a month… because people around here don’t understand birds much!) Finally we got her the help she needs and practically wait on her hand on foot. The two years I’ve had her, I’ve spent about $2,000 dollars! And I don’t regret any cent of it.
Thank you so much Tiffany. You inspire me to speak up, and most of all, not make me feel crazy for the things that I do!
All I can say is… You go girl!!!
Well said!
It’s okay, Tiff – I think every word of your rant is justified. I’m not a rescuer myself, but it near breaks my heart to hear of animals being “rescued” who then end up in a situation which isn’t any better (or even worse) than what they were originally “rescued” from! No matter how good the rescuer’s intentions are, if they can’t provide the animal with the help or care that is needed (or can’t readily find someone else who can) then it’s just not fair to the rescuee!
I really admire all the hard work, personal sacrifice, love and effort that yourself and the true rescuers & carers put in for the sake of neglected pets and animals out there.
There should be more people like you in the world to point out to people that absolutely nobody (be they human or animal) deserves to suffer such neglect! If only better laws were in place to protect the rights of animals!
I am so glad that beautiful Sunny was lucky enough to be re-rescued by someone as wonderful as you. And it’s good to see her smiley face as she enjoys a relaxing paddle in the pool!
What rant? I think what you’ve said is so true.
I hope that the bad patches in Sunny’s life are over and that he can live true to his name – sunny days ahead!
You hit the nail right on the head. I used to feed, tame, trap and spay/neuter and release feral cats and their kittens. Kittens were treated at vet, tamed and adopted. It is a thankless job. Rain, sleet, hail, snow and sweltering weather the cats needed to be cared for. I did this for several years – until I moved. A woman I met who was feeding a feral dog – used to trade off with me. So at some point it wasn’t too bad. But…. having volunteered on animal message boards you hear all types of excuses for why the cat stays outside all the time, is kept in the basement only, owners can’t afford to have it spayed, or can’t take to vet for check-up, and take proper care of said cat.
We all learn from mistakes we make when caring for animals. But there is a difference between learning and neglect. Sunny was neglected. As was Jane, Lily and Sam. RIP Jane.
It seems as though it’s been a tough year with rescuing badly neglected ducks. Jane comes to mind and she still brings a tear to my eye. Now there is Sunny. What makes me most sad is that animals just want to be cared for. They may be in terrible pain but their unconditional love continues, whether a human deserves it or not. Because that dear sweet hurting animal doesn’t know any better. Until it starts to get the care it needs and lives in conditions that allow it to thrive it simply tries to exist as best it knows how. Pain or not.
Tiff you hit the mark with your rant. I applaud you for telling it like it is.
While some rescuers start out with good intentions – if you can’t get the animal proper care, make a car payment, etc then the animals in your care are now being neglected. IMO there is a point where there is no gray area. It’s black and white.
Well said tiff!!!!!
I have spent almost $2000 fixing John Bob’s broken foot. He was my FREE duck. People need to understand there is no such thing as a FREE PET. With pets comes responsibility. It you can’t handle the responsibility do not take it on. Let some one take it on that can handle it. It is not fair to let the pet suffer.
~Leah
a.k.a. John Bob’s mom
People who are determined to have pets and yet do not prperly care for them drive me crazy. I just hate seeing wanted ads on sites like kijiji, where people are asking for a certain animal, but want it for free, and allt eh accesories too. If you can’t afford the animal, a proper habitat, good food, and vet care, you can’t afford that animal at all!
I do foster cat care for a rescue, as well as help out and adopt rescued rats from my friend who runs a rat rescue, and the huge amount of animals being dumped daily is enough to make you turn away from humanity. Spaying and neutering is a basic nessecity when you get an animal, or else you should be prepared to care for every baby it creates!
You are such a wonderful person to care for these sweet creatures who come to you needing so much. Everyone needs to realize the costs of caring for each animal and only have as many as they can afford to care for completely.
NO animal should have to go through what Sunny has.
Good luck with her, I truly hope that she can live as close to a normal life as possible, and no longer be in pain.
CHEERS! APPLAUSE! Couldn’t agree more. You especially hit it out of the ball park with ” Having trouble making ends meet but you have DVDs, an iPhone, an iPod or other bullshit materialistic crap no one needs? You’re wasting money.”
Thank you for all the work you do to promote animal welfare. You’re a true hero.
I agree completely – sending good vibes in Sunny’s direction!
A lot of well-meaning people can’t see further than their hearts. A friend of mine ended up with a large menagerie (including more than 2 dozen rats because instead of 2 females…) because she had a big heart. She never equated the cost of caring for all those animals with why they could never put money by, or afford new toys for their three kids at Christmas, or make the heating oil payment… It might be tough to hear, but I think you made a very thought-out argument, and one that everyone should listen to.
We’re pulling for Sunny!
Pringles mom skipped her car payment to take Max to a neurologiust and internal medicine specialist when she got sick. Pringles was so glad mom was willing to pay for the vet to make Max better. Even though she rescues animals she knows she cant do it all with our the vet. If you really love your pets you make sacrifices. We only ate top ramen for a couple weeks but Max is all better.
Dear SillyHuman,
I wanted to give you another vote of support. We share our lives (and meager income) with two dogs, a cat and two parrots. We do not understand why people have pets that they do not give adequate care to. We don’t have cable t.v., we don’t go to movies, we don’t take vacations or go to fancy restaurants. We have happy, healthy companion animals that enrich our lives beyond measure.
Thank you for being brave and speaking out. You certainly have not alienated us.
There are a few certain things in life… death.. taxes, and that Tiffany knows what she is doing when it comes to duck and geese rescue! I grew up on a farm with lots of animals, however after college, I moved to the “big city”. And, living in a condo in the big city means that although I love ducks, cats and dogs, I’m not in the position to rescue, foster, or even have more than one cat. So, whenever Tiffany has a new rescue who needs lots of medical care, I try to send an extra $10 or $20 to the Kozmo fund. THAT’s a great way for me to help rescused animals. You can help too by making a donation, and leaving it to the “pros” like Tiffany.